“If we had no winter, the spring would not be so pleasant.”
From The Old Blog, November 4, 2014:
An observation that I make every fall is that people are always complaining how cold the weather is becoming. I am guilty of this as well. However, I quickly remind myself that if we had these same temperatures in March or April, we would be over the moon with excitement and some of us would already be breaking out the capri pants and sandals. While I am not “crazy” enough to still wear sandals in this chilly fall weather, the different perspectives based on the time of the seasons are not lost on me.
The seasonal metaphor is quite amenable to the normal ups and downs of life. After reading my post from last year, I realize that I am not nearly as low or as cold as I was at this point last year. I am however, feeling lower than I have at other points in this year. I can tell you why though: I am tired and exhausted from my work schedule, and I’m not at all happy with my work-life balance. I find it stressful that I don’t have control over these aspects of my life right now. I am tired and exhausted from being pregnant and some days I still wonder why I thought this was a good idea. I’m hoping when the spring comes (conveniently when this baby is due, as well), I will have the right answer to this question.
As a sufferer of Seasonal Affective Disorder, it should come as no surprise that the winter months are harder for me than the spring and summer. However, it is definitely these lows that make the highs better. I am relieved to realize that (at least so far), this winter is not nearly as cold and drought filled as last winter, and that makes me feel so much better! I wonder if it’s a coincidence that they are predicting a milder winter for this part of the world this year, too…